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                  Excludes Some Veterans
 November 
                  10, 2002
 
 
 I am writing to express the dismay of the 
                  Hartford-Laurel Post No.45 of the Jewish War Veterans of the 
                  United States at being excluded from Saturday's Connecticut 
                  Veterans Day Parade and attendant celebration.
 
 The 
                  Jewish War Veterans of the United States is the oldest 
                  veterans' organization in the nation, having been founded in 
                  1898, and predates the Veterans of Foreign Wars and the 
                  American Legion.
 
 More than 3 million Jews served 
                  willingly and with great sacrifice and distinction in World 
                  War II in the defense of this great nation. Tens of thousands 
                  more followed in the many military actions since 
                  then.
 
 The parade planning committee has been well aware 
                  for years that we of the JWV are not permitted, either by 
                  conscience or by our national JWV policy, to participate in 
                  this kind of activity because it is being held on our Sabbath, 
                  thereby denying us the public recognition to which we feel we 
                  are entitled.
 
 Because Veterans Day is officially 
                  observed on Monday, why would it not have been possible to 
                  hold the festivities on that day, which could have made it 
                  possible for us to participate with all of our 
                  comrades?
 
 Elliott Donn, Windsor
 
 The writer is 
                  a past post commander of the Hartford-Laurel Post No.45 of the 
                  Jewish War Veterans of the United States.
 
 • • •
 
 Photo Seemed 
                  Disrespectful
 
 The story of high maternal and 
                  infant mortality in Afghanistan could have been told without a 
                  photograph that included the exposed breast of an Afghan woman 
                  [Page A3, Nov. 8, "Against The Odds, Six Hours And 
                  Hoping"].
 
 I hope the photographer had the woman's 
                  permission to publish such a photo. It seemed inappropriate 
                  and disrespectful to me, given the extreme modesty practiced 
                  by Afghan women and the lack of respect for women in the 
                  Afghan culture.
 
 Kerry Eaton, Southington
 
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 No Political Statement In 
                  Obituary
 
 I would like to clarify something in 
                  "Death Notices, Politics Mixed" [Connecticut, Nov. 7]. I never 
                  said that I submitted the obituary for Shaden Abu Hijleh "as a 
                  political statement."
 
 I looked up the word "political" 
                  in the dictionary and found:
 
 1. of, pertaining to, or 
                  concerned with politics.
 
 2. exercising or seeking power 
                  in the government or public affairs of a state, municipality, 
                  etc.: a political party.
 
 3. of, pertaining to, or 
                  involving the state or its government.
 
 4. having a 
                  definite policy or system of government
 
 5. of or 
                  pertaining to citizens: political rights.
 
 Although I 
                  guess it's a question of interpretation, I don't think any of 
                  those definitions fit my intention in placing the 
                  obituary.
 
 I did it because I was so profoundly moved by 
                  the story of Shaden Abu Hijleh's life and the tragedy of her 
                  death in what should have been the comfort and safety of her 
                  own home. I also want people to know that this kind of killing 
                  is happening under Israel's illegal military occupation of 
                  Palestine, which is now in its 34th year. It's illegal 
                  according to more than 60 U.N. resolutions and international 
                  law.
 
 Thanks to the response of the local Zionist 
                  community, many people all over the world have now heard 
                  Shaden Abu Hijleh's story instead of only Courant readers. 
                  I've received dozens of e-mails of support from all over our 
                  country, from a number of countries in the Middle East, 
                  including Israel, from Europe, North Africa and 
                  Australia.
 
 Gale Courey Toensing, Canaan
 
 • • •
 
 Why Allow Premium 
                  Increase?
 
 What's going on in the Connecticut 
                  Insurance Department?
 
 On Nov. 5, I read that Anthem 
                  Blue Cross won approval to raise premiums 4 percent to 7 
                  percent for Medicare HMO clients [Connecticut, "Costs To Rise 
                  For `Medigap' And Medicare HMO"]. In the Business section of 
                  the same day's newspaper, I saw a bold headline that read: 
                  "Profits Up 54 Percent At Anthem For Quarter."
 
 If 
                  Anthem Inc. is that prosperous, is a raise in premiums 
                  warranted?
 
 Joseph J. Soltys, Storrs
 
 • • •
 
 Don't Fault Mentally Ill For 
                  All Problems
 
 We agree with Dr. Joel B. Levine 
                  [Other Opinion, Nov. 1, "Why Don't We Act Before The Shooting 
                  Starts?"] that resources to adequately treat the mentally ill 
                  are not sufficient, but we are concerned that readers are left 
                  with the idea that mental illness and violence are inevitably 
                  linked.
 
 It is important to remember that the vast 
                  majority of people with mental illness are not violent - the 
                  proportion of violence caused by those with mental illness is 
                  very small.
 
 We support increased funding for the 
                  diagnosis and treatment of mental illness, but we take issue 
                  with Levine's broad generalization that such resources are all 
                  that is necessary to cure society's ills.
 
 People with 
                  mental illness are not the reason we live in an increasingly 
                  violent world.
 
 Michael A. Norko, M.D., President
 Connecticut Psychiatric Society, Bloomfield
 
 • • •
 
 Church Should Focus On 
                  Bigger Issues
 
 "Catholics Asked To Oppose Same-Sex 
                  Unions" [news story, Nov. 2] reported that Catholic churches 
                  in Connecticut were circulating a petition to oppose any 
                  change in the state's marriage laws.
 
 With all the 
                  problems in our state, it is unfathomable that Connecticut's 
                  Catholic leadership believes that extending the rights and 
                  protections of civil marriage to gay couples is the most 
                  pressing issue facing our General Assembly.
 
 Here, in 
                  the wealthiest state in the nation, too many people are 
                  homeless or lack access to quality health care. The child 
                  poverty rate is a disgrace, as is the lack of mental health 
                  services for children and adults.
 
 Same-sex couples that 
                  have made lifetime commitments are being denied access to 
                  state-sanctioned, state-financed rights of civil marriage. We 
                  are trying not to change the definition of what marriage means 
                  but to eliminate discriminatory access.
 
 The Catholic 
                  Church has every right to refuse to marry a couple who do not 
                  meet its requirements for religious marriage. Expanding 
                  Connecticut's marriage laws to include same-sex couples would 
                  not change that. The church does not marry people who have 
                  been divorced, even though divorced people can be legally 
                  married under Connecticut law. The same will also be true of 
                  same-sex couples once we are able to legally marry.
 
 If 
                  marriage is a good thing for heterosexual couples, why is it 
                  not equally good for same-sex couples?
 
 Anne E. 
                  Stanback, President
 Love Makes A Family, 
                  Avon
 
 Love Makes A Family is an advocacy group 
                  working to expand Connecticut's marriage laws to include 
                  same-sex couples.
 
 
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